See here for the original blog of Why Do Men Like Japanese Women?
The blog is an attempt to call men stupid who dated Japanese women because they are Japanese.
Despite having dated a lot of Japanese, I didn't just date Japanese women. I date a lot of foreigners who happened to be women and not Japanese.
In that blog posted a week ago or less, I said that I just dated women, and didn't care where they were from.
But, in the three years in Japan - although I dated foreigners for the first year, I pretty much exclusively dated Japanese women in years two and three.
Does that make me a hypocrite?
Did I date only Japanese women because I suddenly found them more attractive than the foreigners around me?
No! Of course not. I may be an asshole, a lousy father and a lousy husband (I said 'may' - I don't think I am) and even a crappy writer, but I am not a hypocrite.
Not even 23 years ago when I lived in Japan.
Nope. At that time, it took me a year to gain the the language ability to talk to a Japanese person. Point 1.
Point 2. At that time, options opened up.
Point 3. At no time did I ever say to myself - hey, I should only date Japanese women.
Point 4. Because I was living in Japan, I noticed that there were a lot of Japanese women living there too.
Point 5. Being smarter than the average bear and gaijin (because just how smart is the average gaijin or bear?), I also realized after learning a bit of the language and culture I now had more people with whom I could communicate with.
Point 6. I dated women I felt I best communicated with.
Point 7. By the middle of Year 2, I had already slept with or dated as many foreign women (in the JET Programme) as I could - and had dated women in their first, second and third-years of Japan occupancy. They no longer seemed to want to go out with me.
Point 8. I can take a hint, and seemed to date far more Japanese women than ever before.
But... at no time did I ever date a Japanese woman just because she was Japanese.
I've never been one to limit myself by physicality, race, religion, colour, creed - hell, I'd even sleep with you if you were a lesbian and so inclined to recline. I just like women.
Limiting myself to only date Japanese women would mean I might actually miss out on the spectacular awesomeness of someone else.
I only state all of this because I got into a discussion on this topic with someone who e-mailed me directly. And while the conversation was friendly, I still felt that if he was confused, then maybe I didn't explain my own position (Kama Sutra #13!) very well.
Oh... and since arriving back in Canada 20 years ago, I have not slept with a single Japanese women of the 40+ I have indeed boinked. I don't think I can put it any more loquaciously than that. Especially if I didn't use the word correctly.
Cheers
Andrew Joseph
PS: The real reason for this blog was to avoid an Easter Egg on my face (or is it?) and to show you another photo of a hot woman. She is Japanese, but that's not the point.
PS: The woman in the image above is Mikie Hara, born July 3, 1987 in Niigata-shi, Niigata-ken in Japan. She is indeed a beautiful woman, but despite her fame as a model and actress, she is indeed a dead-ringer for an old girlfriend of mine, Junko, who only used me as a play thing while she had other boyfriends for other reasons.
Being the sex boyfriend, I think I got a better deal the all the others who merely got to hang out and buy her stuff and still never got the sex!
It was a great deal and one I would gladly make again.
Regardless off Junko's mania, Hara is:
Height: 1.62 meters (5'-4")
BWH (centimeters): 94-60-88 (37"-23.5"-34.5")
Blood Type: O
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